POF is a POS. How are you supposed to know if you're interested in someone if you don't view their profile. POF takes it upon themselves to send a message that you're a match just because 2 people have viewed each other's profiles. That is misleading and cause unnecessary problems. I get messages from people I'm actually not interested in because of it. I'm tired of explaining it to gentleman who think it's actually coming from me.

Terrible website, terrible customer service. I paid for a premium membership, and within a couple days my account was “flagged” and put into quarantine. Someone who doesn’t handle rejection well reported my account to be a jerk, and their policy is to punish the person reported without any investigation. Once you’re account is flagged, forget about being there. They ban your IP, cell phone, email. Multiple support tickets and phone calls, they acknowledge my PAID account should not be banned, but due to their inept IT don’t know how to resolve this “known issue”. They won’t issue a refund because I purchased the membership on Apple Pay, and in trying to resolve it with them, my time to get a refund on Apple expired. I had full use of my account for maybe 5 days in total, and I give up. I’m a 50yr old widow and did nothing to violate any rules, yet the site is full of scammers, players and prostitutes but that’s ok! What a joke.

Dating apps are mostly the same but I met my fiance on this one so I am kind of partial to it... I liked that you could message on POF without a premium membership although there are creeps on here just like everywhere else.